Call me naive, but when I look at my little Molly – I don’t see a little girl with a disability. I see a funny and carefree kid that loves playing and does everything a typical kid does. The only difference? She’s got an extra chromosome…
When Molly was born and we learned of her diagnosis, I remember thinking that the life I had envisioned for our family was gone. The dreams and hopes I had would suddenly have to take another path… or so I thought.
As I think about it now, I couldn’t have been more wrong. Our family is still on the same journey we had hoped – one of love, laughter and lots of fun. Molly has brightened our family and our world, she’s just a typical kid. Sure, she has a speech delay and doesn’t talk very much – but she’s very vocal and great with sign language too.
Having a child with Down syndrome (or any disability, for that matter) shouldn’t be seen as a hindrance – just a minor bump in the road. Don’t feel sorry for those of us with children that have special needs… and especially don’t feel bad for the child!
While the role of a special needs parent wasn’t the plan I had laid out for my life – it’s the perfect place for me. And I couldn’t be more proud!
Comments
Michelle
Not naive!, you’re a loving mother and I agree all I see is a playful little girl! so important to continue to share your journey with others and educate and enlighten all of us that may or may not be as familiar….
Carrie with Children
Thank you so much, Michelle!
Pam Sohan
I couldn’t agree more ! I have a son with Autism. And I see him before I see his so called disability.
Carrie with Children
Thanks so much for reading, Pam! I wish that everyone could see our precious kiddos as people first!
Amanda M.
What a wonderful attitude! There is so much to learn and so many ways to love! You are a beautiful light in an often dark and cynical world. Thanks for sharing your struggles and triumphs and your beautiful children!
Carrie with Children
Thank you for stopping by, Amanda. Your nice note means a lot to me – I appreciate it!
karen
Love it! Shared on our page this morning 🙂 My feeling is, if offered that Caleb’s Down syndrome could be taken away, we would politely decline. It makes him who he is!
Carrie with Children
Thanks Karen! I couldn’t agree with you any more – you’re absolutely right!